Wednesday, April 29, 2020

Lock down Lessons

While we have all gotten used to wrapping our minds around lock down, Covid-19 is playing a much deeper game with the world. None of us are sure if we have seen the worst case scenario yet, but we all are coping with what life has thrown at us. In spite of the pandemonium it has created, the global pandemic behooves me for the life lessons, it has taught in a short time.
  1. This planet is not just ours. It belongs to other species too. We acted otherwise all along.
  2. There is no substitute to family. It’s a big safety net.
  3. Everything else has its substitutes – from the simple newspaper to an herb like oregano. Absolutely anything can be substituted. No Oregano use fresh basil from the pots. No moisturizer use coconut oil and the list goes on.
  4. Important to be creative, in everything – especially in cooking. How else would I have survived so many days impressing two men, with some limited resources.
  5. Even the strong ones need help and support – physically and emotionally. Give it without being judgmental.
  6. The stone rejected by builders becomes the cornerstone – got to understand the real meaning of this verse. Our elliptical has moved from the first floor to our terrace due to complete lack of patronage and during this lock down it has been a saving grace for our workouts.
  7. It’s not enough that you have a good collection of professional wear, but imperative that you have a good collection of home wear too. To create an feel good factor, I lavishly used all the holiday wear at home.
  8. I always believed we paid a big price for a house, as its is locked most of the day and we get back late in the evenings. No, I am wrong. Its definitely serving its ROI now.
  9. There is nothing that cannot happen virtually – weddings, birthdays, Zumba, mass, family get together's, games, why even funerals.
  10. It pays to have good neighbors around, especially when you end up seeing them almost every day for more than 40 days
  11. Hopeless and futile to have dependencies in life. Change is the only constant thing.
  12. Always knew the uncertainty of life, but Covid-19, took it a little far. Attitude adjustment is the key.
  13. When its between life and death, everything else can wait. That includes religion too.
  14. For what it’s worth other interests in life would help you sustain yourself during slow down days, even later – reading, art, writing, music, plants, pets, cooking, dreaming, cleaning and not to forget Netflix. Apply your mind and this list is endless.
  15. In no time, the discernibly strong can spiral out of control and look like fools
  16. For all we know L.I.F.E could just turn around willfully, malevolently and vindictively anytime. Don’t we ever forget that.
  17. Yes. Life can take a complete U turn in no time and without any notice!
  18. Health is what we all need to aspire for. Nothing more. Nothing less. Period.
  19. We all desire for continuity and that’s exactly why we see people scaling up to the unprecedented times – school teachers using virtual apps for classes, people coming up with innovative videos on music and many more.
  20. Education that we thought is the most important has taken a back seat.  how do explain that?
  21. The most ordinary of the folks cannot be replaced and they still work.   the garbage cleaner, vegetable vendor, the milk man, the nurses, the ward boys
  22. While we all sit smugly in the safety of homes, there are health workers who are right in the middle of the chaos, making sacrifices
  23. There is no limit to the foolishness of the humankind.  One world leader can prove it to us.
  24. Isn’t this Pandemic a great leveler? Almost like time?

13 comments:

  1. Yes to all. Crisis make us reflective and should make us wiser too. History has however taught us that we will forget and go back to our old ways fairly soon. After the horrors of World War II, it was thought that humanity will never fight a war again. The United Nations was formed. Alas, it was only a short time, when humanity was back fighting.

    I am afraid the same may happen now. However, if we can take one lesson in our lives and live to that, maybe a small good came out of a very nasty time.

    Stay safe Vincy, and keep blogging. Your posts are something to look forward to and bring positivity, and a smile. The thought of you doing a video call with the office wearing a formal jacket and a pajama is ........., well, priceless :)

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  2. your thought just got me ROFL. Reminds me of a video that i saw just today about a reporter at Abc news, Will Reeve, who went on air from home, wearing a suit jacket not realising the camera caught the fact that he wasn't wearing trousers.

    Not me though. Mostly dressed appropriately for my sessions. The only thing missing these days is the make-up.

    And you too Ramesh, hold in there and stay safe.

    And hey, these days when i delay putting down my thoughts, you come up in my head adn give me that gentle nudge. adn truly appreciate the fact that you are the first one to put down your comments here. Blessed to have you :-)

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  3. 'The new normal' phrase and phase so apt ! Good list Vincy.

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    1. This lock down sets us thinking and its all a matter of perspective

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  4. Egapatta thoughts and all of them well found also. It is becoming increasingly scary and depressing even for those who are little impacted at the moment. We are having a different fear for future.. Whether there will be one at all!!

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    1. Absolutely right Gilsu.

      Becomes even more important to stand up to the heat and work our magic looking at positive side of things. Our perspectives matter for our leaps of faith, that we will all soon make

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  5. Summed up beautifully, Vinny. It is true that we all have our share of learnings during this lockdown.

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  6. Summed up beautifully, Vincy. It is true that we had our share of learning this lockdown.

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    1. Hey thanks, though i am having difficulty figuring out who you are. :-) :-)

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  7. wow vincy this is exactly what i think too! well put. kept nodding on every point. #11 is the mantra that kept me going pre-covid and it still works. #20 is worrisome. what do we do? #7is a good idea. throw in baby shower to #9 and we are all set:-) hopefully we are seeing the end. crossing fingers.

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    1. Hey Ian Its been a long time since you have been here.

      baby shower is a good addition. :-) :-) Looks like we all have to get used to living with Covid 19

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  8. keep this coming..people like me who struggle everyday with everything going around needs this. Every point is so apt.

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    1. Yeah. All of us struggling together during these Covid times. some are just good at masking it better. And writing it all down gives some respite.

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